Ignoring Deliberately

Ignoring Problematic Behavior (Ages 1-8)

Pay close attention when your child is doing something good, and try not to give attention when they are behaving poorly. This strategy can lead to a positive change in behavior.

Even saying something like “I’m not listening to you” gives the child attention. It’s better to step away from the situation instead. Ignore problem behavior when it starts, and only give attention again when the behavior stops. Find ways to distract yourself during these moments, like listening to music or making a shopping list.

One more thing to be mindful of: If a child exhibits a behavior you initially choose to ignore, but it escalates (for example, they start tapping a glass on the floor lightly, but then do it with more force), you may need to intervene to prevent harm or damage.