
ABC Behavior Management
To study behavior in children effectively, it’s helpful to break behavior into three steps:
- Antecedent (What happens before the behavior)
- Behavior
- Consequence (What happens after the behavior)
The event that happens before the behavior is called the antecedent. Often, the antecedent acts as a trigger. For example, if the child sees their grandfather eating candy while the grandmother is nearby, the child might cry for candy. The presence of the candy or the grandparents triggers this behavior. By changing the antecedent, you can discourage or eliminate unwanted behavior.
15 Things to Do to Encourage Good Behavior

Before the Behavior (Antecedents)
- Change the environment
Create a setting that encourages positive behavior. - Be clear about what you mean
Children are more likely to cooperate when instructions are simple and clear. - Train the child to adapt to change
Help your child become comfortable with changes. - Give children choices
For example, when shopping for clothes, allow them to choose from appropriate options. - Divert attention from problematic situations
Gradually teach the child to recognize troubling situations and redirect their focus. - Teach how to behave in different settings
For example, teach appropriate behavior for going shopping or visiting a friend’s house. - Give instructions one at a time
Break down tasks into manageable steps. - Train the child in routines
Practice daily routines such as eating, bathing, and sleeping.
Consequences That Encourage Good Behavior
- Emphasize good behavior
Reinforce positive actions to encourage repetition. - Ignore minor misbehavior
For small misbehaviors, ignoring them can sometimes be effective. - Use rewards
Rewards can inspire good behavior but should be used in moderation. - Time-out
When a child behaves contrary to expectations, placing them in time-out for a short period can be effective. - Provide consistent consequences
The consequences of behavior should always be clear and consistent. - Make rules and enforce them
Establish clear rules and consistently practice them.

10 Things to Avoid:
- Always giving in to whining
Constantly yielding to a child’s demands reinforces negative behavior. - Failing to recognize triggers
Be mindful of factors such as hunger, fatigue, or fear that may cause misbehavior. - Misunderstanding the child
Ensure that what you say is understood. Focus on whether the child grasps your point. - Sudden changes without transition
Don’t force abrupt changes in activities. Train the child to transition smoothly. - Giving too many instructions at once
Giving too many instructions at once can overwhelm the child. - Repeating misbehavior in specific situations
For instance, if a child consistently asks for expensive clothes while shopping, they may not understand limits unless this behavior is addressed. - Ignoring what the child does
Ignoring a child’s positive actions can lead them to seek negative attention. If they don’t receive positive reinforcement, they may act out to get noticed. - Delaying consequences
Consequences should be immediate and connected to the behavior. Delaying them can confuse the child. - Inconsistent responses to the same behavior
Respond to behavior the same way each time, regardless of the setting (e.g., with or without guests present). - Giving in to whining
If the child learns that whining will get them what they want, they will continue to use it to achieve their goals.










































